Sunday, May 24, 2026

Tricked into Trek

Nothing beats the weekly family choir.  We're working on patriotic and primary songs about summer.
A postcard came from Korea!  Sweet Andy mailed us one.

The best thing that happened this week was a visit from my mother!  She came to nurture Molly and Ryan while the rest of us went on Trek with the stake.
This here is Ma and Pa Oats (name from the label on our food storage bucket).  We were assigned the lightest and smallest family of youth, but we destroyed all the other families.  At one point we rested for 45 minutes to wait for the last group to catch up.

Papa Oats lived his best life.  There is something about providing and protecting his family in the wilderness that makes him so happy.


Which meant that the Trail Boss placed us in the very back.  I knew my youth would be chomping at the bit to pass the other teams, so I lead us in a 20 minute nap.  Once the rest was over, we caught up in seven minutes.  The rest of the day was a slog.  We wanted to get her done, but we were forced to move so slowly.
Found these two siblings who found each other.  
This little trekker carried her family right up that women's pull.  She's strong physically and as a leader.  (Of course she also won the foot race to choose the biggest chicken.)
This trekker was the work horse in his family.  He did all the cooking, cleaning, pulling and maintenance.  Once we walked over and just needed to shed a few tears about how hard it is to do everything.  (I didn't spoil the surprise that he's at the beginning of this reality.  We were so proud of him.)
The Biggle-Oats.
If we lived 180 years ago, and it was my family that needed to cross the plains, I actually think we would have made it.  Yet, there is another side to my thinking knowing that Andy and Nick would have carried women across the river and died of exposure, Austin would have given me all of his food and died of malnutrition, Ryan would be involved in an accident resulting in a maimed leg the rest of his life, and Eddie would have both legs amputated because he had to be the head of our household due to the big boys' deaths......leaving Meg, Maisie, Molly, Maddie and me to pull our handcart all the way to Zion.  

Trek with my children as my children -- Babcock 10 -- would be unreal.  My children are goats.

Proof.
In the mean time, Grandma Kim was home reading novels to Molly and Ryan then watching the corresponding movies.  They ate simply and slept soundly.  

Grandma Kim also made sure that Miss Molly didn't miss her annual dance recital.  Here is the proof.
Monday morning Mother was flying home again.  Our 11 hours spent together meant everything.
Bendy are vacationing in beautiful Montana rn.  (I hope Andy is flexing his abs -- I bet his is. AHHAHAH!)
This little kitty and her mother are a very happy duo.  Milk.  Lots of milk to make a chubby baby.  
Elder Babcock and Hillstead are just so wonderful.  They work so hard and are rewarded for their exact obedience.

Long week for Maisie.  She's in the grind of real life.  She's good at it.  Proud of her.

Sunday, May 17, 2026

104 Days of Summer Vacation

What a week.  School is out for the summer!  
My little friends and I completed four books of history, two books of grammar, an entire year of arithmetic (Eddie's book had 586 pages), individually read a novel each week, kept up the bimonthly tradition of letters to Grandma Goodell, and completed the Book of Mormon.  We're glad to take a break.  
Maddie's last day with her besties. 
AI is still very much apart of my camera reel.  Thank you Molly for this selfie.  This photo commemorates this old bag of bones and her very healthy annual exam.  (It's only been a decade since the last exam.  Dr. Reed suggested I come in a couple years -- a decade is a little long.)
Maisie informed me that this picture is considered a "soft launch" -- we're declaring our infatuation while remaining anonymous.  I'd soft launch with this handsome boy anywhere (especially in Venice).
Gut health?  Yes, please.
We work with Austin for an hour each morning -- we're re-landscaping the rocks on the south side of our house.  Because we only work an hour a day, no one really complains.  It's really nice to work together.


Austin decided that we would love to watch "Star Wars" in concert performed by the Phoenix sympony.  He was right.  He also decided that if we were going to go, we were going to GO! The music was unreal, and I only dozed in and out of the first half.  I mean lovely music, a soft chair and a dark room only mean one thing -- NAP TIME!
He purchased costumes and told the children that he would pay them for the number of pictures others asked to take with them.  So fun.
Maddie's pose caused audible sighs from the photographers.
I need to ask Maisie if this couple posing is considered a "soft launch."
These two were just the right size to trip everyone out.  Ryan's eyes actually lit up, and Eddie could barely see anything.
Post show, off to In and Out we went.
A couple customers even took our pictures there.
We also ran into Walmart, noticed only by a really low-key family in our ward.  I don't think they would ever dream of donning costumes and parading around Phoenix.  "Great Parenting!" a few parents told us.  They are right.

We celebrated Grandpa B.'s 81st birthday!  He joined in the singing of his birthday song and graciously accepted a new attachment for his garden hose.  Molly kept climbing in and out of his lap giving him all the love and attention he deserved.  
This Catan game restulted in every person on the table combining to thwart Austin.  My hand was often poached to build roads and block Austin in from every possible angle.  He was a good sport -- last time they tried this on me, I cried.
Fast Friday happened again for this little familia and Maisie (Bendy (Andy+Becca) showed up in fine form).  Saturday night they were feasting on hot dogs, egg sandwiches and hot cheetos for dinner.  It was the sheer laughter in their voices, almost as if they won the lottery by not stressing over dinner prep and clean up.  When you're that happy, the lottery takes on many forms.
Bendy's selfie at church.  This is not a "soft launch."
Elder Bevy-coca spent another week on exchanges and helping other missionaries, members and friends learn more about Jesus.  We discussed how it's hard to stay focused in prayers that often our minds wonder to people and their needs.  Isn't it lovely that perhaps our thoughts aren't wandering, but instead being prompted those who need us.  We felt blessed to reason that out together.
Giant Slug
Homies.

More May, More Money

Seminary is officially over!  Waffles for all.  Attendance for most.  Inclusion for those who cared.


Their teacher.  Admittedly, this is my favorite calling.
Found some recipes.
Totally made them.  Both repeatable.  (If I remember.  I desperately need a way better system of recording successful dinners.)
Little Miss got top braces.  She seems really old all of a sudden.
Mother's Day bouquet from the big girls still blooming so hard.
Ryan snapped this.  I was happy with that muscle.
Selfie.  He played his last football game this week.  His team was horribly slow and did not listen to the coaches -- they lost all games but one.  Luckily, Ryan is fast and listened to his coach, so he was easily the MVP and was recruited to be on a club team.  Sadly the games are on Sunday, so we're out.  He was sad aboout it, but Elder Babcock talked him through it.
We're so close to finishing his 8th grade arithmetic book.  I won't let him give up.  Consequently, we spend hours doing math each day.  Worth it. Love it.  Love him.  I'm already mourning his upcoming high school promotion.
Maddie's track recognition night.  She's a boss.  At everything.

Molly has embraced the AI features in Google.  Too good.


I needed to practice a prototype hobo bag.  Maisie wanted it.  So did Meg.  I sent one to each of them.  Best bit: The fabric was leftover from a project I used to sew a neighbor's trek skirt.  $1 for the snap.  $8 to mail.  Good times.

More AI fun.  I'm old.  Apparently I'm grumpy.  Whelp.  Please, let me nap.  Someone.
Pool is open!
My Messenger account is not opening on my computer, so I have no pictures of my children in Utah.  

Bendy announced their wedding date!  Armstrongs run fast at the track on Saturdays.  Maisie is living her best life spending all her free time with a very nice boy.  Love all my people.